
Only when we are brave enough to explore the darkness will we discover the infinite power of our light.
- Brené Brown
What Is Trauma?
Single and repeated incidents of trauma can result in lasting psychological impact for children and adults. We will explore what trauma is, how it can show up, and how to promote healing and growth.
Trauma Defined
Trauma can be defined as a natural response to a terrible experience or series of events that overwhelms an individual’s ability to cope. During a traumatic event, it is not unusual for your body to think that your survival is threatened in some kind of way. Following the traumatic experience, however, it can get “stuck” in survival mode, as if the threat is or could still be present.
The following are examples of experiences that might be traumatic:
Accidents
Childhood abuse
Sexual assault
Natural and human-caused disasters
Violent personal assaults
Domestic violence
Racism, discrimination, and oppression
Sudden, unexplained separation from a loved one
Individuals experiencing traumatic events may experience post-traumatic symptoms for a limited period of time and others may go on to develop Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. Complex PTSD may develop in response to an accumulation of traumatic experiences, such as long-term childhood neglect, prolonged physical or emotional abuse, domestic abuse, and human trafficking.
How Common Is Trauma and How Can It Show Up?
According to the National Institute of Mental Health, approximately 50% of adults in the United States will experience at least one traumatic event in their lives and 5% to 10% of the general population are affected by Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).
Longer-term reactions to trauma can include:
Being easily startled and always feeling worried about something bad happening to you
Feelings of anxiety in response to activated memories of the traumatic experience(s)
Feeling tense, absent, or numb, and finding it challenging to access emotions
Feelings of guilt, shame, or irritability
Memory impairment
Nightmares
Unwanted thoughts, memories, flashbacks, images
Intense distress in response to trauma reminders
Physical symptoms such as headaches, nausea, and gastrointestinal problems
How You Can Begin Healing
Trauma therapy includes building a therapeutic relationship with you that has a foundation of mutual trust and safety, skill-building to foster coping, stabilization, and an increased sense of safety, and reprocessing traumatic information to promote resolution. Our work together will be at a pace that feels safe and tolerable to you.
The last phase in therapy typically involves building upon newly emerging healthy beliefs of the self, which, depending on your experiences, may include devoting time and energy to reconnecting with people, engaging in meaningful activities, and other aspects of life.
Take the Next Step
EMDR Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, Sand Therapy, and Internal Family Systems Therapy are currently offered at Meadow Grove Counseling, LLC to support individuals impacted by past traumatic experiences. Schedule a complimentary phone consultation to learn more about how trauma therapy may help you and to explore if we are a good fit.